
tiny yellow violas in an old weathered hand (yep it’s mine)
For Writer’s Quote Wednesday #42, my favorite quote about the sense of touch:
“There’s power in the touch of another person’s hand. We acknowledge it in little ways, all the time. There’s a reason human beings shake hands, hold hands, slap hands, bump hands.
“It comes from our very earliest memories, when we all come into the world blinded by light and color, deafened by riotous sound, flailing in a suddenly cavernous space without any way of orienting ourselves, shuddering with cold, emptied with hunger, and justifiably frightened and confused. And what changes that first horror, that original state of terror?
“The touch of another person’s hands.
“Hands that wrap us in warmth, that hold us close. Hands that guide us to shelter, to comfort, to food. Hands that hold and touch and reassure us through our very first crisis, and guide us into our very first shelter from pain. The first thing we ever learn is that the touch of someone else’s hand can ease pain and make things better.
“That’s power. That’s power so fundamental that most people never even realize it exists.”
Jim Butcher – Skin Game
Til next time ~Stay calm and read urban fantasy ~JP
That’s just lovely~ the one thing I missed the most living alone was the simple touch of someone
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Thank you Sherry I felt the same in fact I spent some time in healing touch therapy basically I saw a massage therapist weekly for awhile it was surprising how well it worked.
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Gorgeous thoughts and picture, JP. I agree with Sherry. After my first husband died, I missed his touch and sound of him. People can’t live long without touch. Life is better together.
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Undoubtedly better. When Hub’s used to travel alone *shudder* I used to sleep in his shirt 😆 but what I missed the most was the sound of him. It’s funny but I miss the feel of grass on my feet, stupid neuropathy 😉
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I go barefoot a lot. I would miss that, too! I used to travel alone more than Vince did – during our marriage. He traveled when he was young because of his job but that was before my time. Now, he doesn’t even like to travel very much. We have a great time together when we do, but he loves to be home near his peeps and his animals. I never slept in my first husband’s clothes, but he didn’t travel much either. After he passed, I gave his clothes away quickly to my neighbor who made sure that they got to needy people in Mexico. I wanted them to do some good rather than sit in a closet. His mom kept his dad’s clothes until she moved out of the house – about 40 years.
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Touch was what I missed most during lockdown. It is our given need as primates. 😊😊😊
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When I got divorced I saw a massage therapist who specialized in touch therapy it helped a lot. The need for touch does indeed seem to be inherently necessary to all primates.
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I remember seeing a documentary on touch & primates; a rescued infant chimp wasn’t thriving until given a cloth doll to cuddle
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